Workshop Exercises: Ice-breakers

Personal Histories

Build trust between team members by letting them demonstrate vulnerability

Illustration of Personal Histories
Run a Personal Histories play

Why: Boost collaboration and understanding by providing a safe opportunity to be vulnerable in a low-risk environment

When: When a lack of trust among team members potentially harms their performance

Instructions for running this play

  1. Introduce the exercise and explain its purpose of building trust among team members.
  2. Have each participant answer the following 3 questions in turns.

    • Where did you grow up?
    • How many siblings do you have and where do you fall in that order?
    • Which was the hardest or the most important event or challenge that you overcame in my childhood?

  3. Debrief. Ask team members to share what they learned about one another that they didn’t already.

Tips to perfect this play

Master and adapt the play to fit your context and needs.

Tip

Do a toned down variation of the exercise if you are more comfortable doing so. The exercise can also be done in steps. However, the true magic comes from sharing personal events.

Tip: Builds trust

This exercise is a perfect warm up before embarking on exercises where trust is a prerequisite.

Tip: Pick theme

Choose specific themes like team values, project aspects, or skills to focus on during different radar sessions

Tip: Go anonymous

Provide an option for anonymous inputs to encourage honest feedback, particularly for sensitive topics

This workshop exercise is part of the Workshop Patterns printed card deck.

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